Might forgive him but time is still questionable. I'm not opting for revenge or such. But it do well hurts a lot. As they say...Time heals all wounds [Putting it all in my head].
Sometimes memories haunt you once in a while. That's why when love hurts you, the scar don't vanish over night, it takes a while. But do you believe that another love will heal a broken heart?
Yes perhaps. But for a freshly wounded heart, I think that another love won't be the immediate solution to that. Might be or it will be, as time goes by, wherein the pain does not rekindle anymore.
Betrayed by the person you really love huh? that really "sucks" ? . . and there's no way of scapin that kind of situation like running on an endless road and the pain just won't heal. damn, wish to die that moment when you heard the news, your mind goes blank and tears starts rollin down your cheeks. we often say that time would heal the broken hearts, but that aint true. cause no matter how you'd forgive that prson , how many times you'd spend laughin with someone else, pain just wont go away. dont know why..!!!
The degree of pain depends on how we were betrayed. maybe you were expecting too much, trusted your partner too much that now you're having a hard time coping up. remember that we are all just human beings, bound to make mistakes. nobody's perfect! [I really dont like this phrase 'Nobody's perfect'] beacause that's what people take as an excuse when they do mistake.
Revenge?...when you plan to get even with someone, you're only letting that person continue to hurt you. how do you think you could move on and let your pain heal when all you think about is the person who wronged you?...when we forgive, we are doing ourselves a favor more than the person who wronged us because we may heal right away, grow up as a person, and find true happiness. when we let go of our anger and hatred, peace will reign within ourselves.
It feels like shitter that the shittiest.It basically ruins our ability to trust...and over in your mind, you'll ask why?? and at the end (if there's such end to the feeling of hurt and pain) it'll either break you or...make you stronger as a person.
If you trully love the person, you'll forgive. But how if he do it again in future? Are you willing to forgive him again? Its either Love or Revenge will rules you.
Of course it hurts!Maybe it's the most hurting experience u would ever feel in ur entire life.Could u just imagine,the person u trusted,loved,cared and the last person u've thought would hurt u,betrayed u?But,that's the irony of life,things happen when we don't expect them.Move on,have a life! It's not the end of everything.Nothing is permanent in this world.Forgive?yes of course!Forget?no!Don't seek revenge because you'll hurt yourself the most!
Really sucks..I feel like i'd stop breathing and just die.
I will try to forgive at first and try my best to get it back. cuz did u ask urself why he will betray? If he really betray, must ask for the answer why? If he/she really betray me and really cant to be forgive, why keep on keeping the person which her/his heart not with you and if u really love her/him why dont chose to let her/him go, no point. Maybe next time she/he will betray u again and she/he will do the same thing again and again and again....!!!
Betrayal comes in many forms, but be it in the worse form, accept it for acceptance makes life easier for everyone...but make you suffer.
Forgive then love again.
It is going to take a loooong time before i could ever trust that person again. He has to earn my trust. I have the right to snoop around his belongings and ask him questions and he shouldn't have any problem with that even I know he is so smart to hide everything but my feeling helps me... he should understand what i'm going through.. if he doesn't, then he is not worth keeping. But what I want is, he keep away the girl from his life and let him love me again by his own willingness.
I'll forgive him and move on with my life.. But hey..its easier said than being done. It's not as simple as that. It really hurts when someone you really love and trust betrayed you for no good reason.
well, i would feel totally.............betrayed.
I cant breath, I suddenly stop breathing like your body cannot stand with pain and you fainted and 'I cant believe this' that's all in my mind. My hands suddenly flying to his face, I wish I could die that time, my body feels so light, no soul, no spirit, no feeling at all. That's the very high degree of painfulness until you cannot cry, no feeling, your head is empty, you feel your body so damn light, very light and you cant even speak.
You tell me if there is any other thing in the word more painful than the feeling of being betrayed by someone you love.
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